Well, dear friends, December is officially here, and I’m carrying that gentle stillness from my midnight reflection (the one about the bed and the hot water bottle!) right into the start of the month. That cozy moment—that deep, quiet breath of gratitude—is the very feeling we need to tuck into our pockets and keep safe.

Because let’s be honest: the moment December arrives, the world starts gently nudging us, and before we know it, we’ve swapped our mindful pace for the frantic pace of a festive pinball machine.

Suddenly, we’re all supposed to transform into high-functioning elves, fueled by last-minute lists and the ghost of perfectionism. (Did I remember to get the Advent calendar started? Is this carol loud enough? Did I remember to stock up on mince pies? Have we even put up the tree yet?)

But this year, we are protecting that quiet, inner warmth.

I’ve realised that the most generous act of love we can give ourselves this season is not found in hustling harder or achieving a flawless holiday. It’s found in the simple, radical grace of stopping that frantic momentum. Your ‘Mindful Miles’ this month aren’t just about movement; they are measured in the intentional, loving pauses you grant yourself.

So, if your shoulders are already creeping up to meet your festive earrings—that familiar sign that you’re doing too much—consider this your gentle, heartfelt reminder: The greatest act of self-love this December is giving yourself the honest, full permission to simply rest and breathe.

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2 responses to “Self-Love Miles”

  1. SAYOR BASELENOUS Avatar

    “What a beautiful reminder to slow down and honor ourselves, even amidst all the December bustle. Your words wrap the season in gentle stillness and gratitude—I’m carrying this thought with me as I step into the month. Thank you for sharing such a comforting, mindful reflection.

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    1. Olu Opesanwo Avatar

      Thank you so much! It’s truly a gift to know that my words resonated with you so deeply. You described it in the most perfect way—’wrapping the season in gentle stillness.’ That is exactly the feeling we are aiming for! December has a way of sweeping us up, so it’s vital we protect those quiet pockets. If we can carry that thought with us and let it guide our pace, you’re right, we’ve already won December! Wishing you peace, comfort, and many gentle pauses this month. 🙏

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